• Emotional abuse series part1 – emotional abuse in relationships and marriage

    Hey guys if you have loves my blog so far and would like to contribute at https://ko-fi.com/abbey0245 it would be appreciated ❤. Thanks to Hannah at https://pagesplacesandplates.wordpress.com for taking out time to share her thoughts and experience on this issue, feel free to check out her blog. Now my theme for this month is based on emotional abuse and I have sought the help of other bloggers to contribute to this theme ,so if you would love to contribute a story,blog post or poem on this topic feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll get across to you.  I am personally of the opinion that emotional abuse isn’t…

  • Male circumcision- is this a recipe for future disasters?

    The picture you’re about to see below may be considered explicit .   Hey guys, it’s a new month y’all. The decision to write this topic came from a poll I took on my twitter account to appreciate the country with the largest amount of my viewers- the USA and a follower asked I write on a topic controversial to Americans which is the issue of male circumcision. Thanks Jessica from http://allformyself.net for the idea. Is it all good and rosy or is their another side not been talked about. I will be talking about male circumcision as both a positive critic and a negative critic and would love to…

  • Versatile Blogger award🎉

    I’m excited, well that’s if you can’t already tell. I was nominated for my first ever versatile blogger award so you can guess I am extremely happy, and my appreciation goes to Nikki over at https://lovemetreatme.net for this nomination. Feel free to check out her blog it’s worth the click💛. As a new blogger this certainly means a lot to know that my efforts are appreciated and the messages I try to pass across through them are reaching and hopefully inspiring and encouraging others around the world. To be nominated along with so many wonderful and amazing bloggers is truly one of the best feelings in the world. To be appreciated…

  • Are you subconsciously judgemental

    Hey guys I interrupt this blog post to give a public service announcement😂 I have opened a ko-fi account and would love your contributions and support💛 . Feel free to buy me a coffee @  https://ko-fi.com/abbey0245 Are you judgemental? I am sure most of us would probably swear that we don’t do that shit.  Half of us define ourselves as non- judgemental and tolerable people😇,  we aren’t one to judge others based on any criteria. We simply drink a glass of chilled water and mind our business🍸- with no care in the world for other people’s matters. The words in the picture below would most probably be your answer right??…

  • Mental health series part2 – Body shaming

    Hey guys, well this is a continuation to the mental health series I started last year , this is for anyone and everyone who is tired of constantly been body shamed, constantly been looked down on cause of your body type.  We all have been at that point in our lives where things people say actually affect us, i know we all say “oh i don’t give a damn what  people say” but lowkey we know its hurting us deep inside, its eating us up within, we lowkey look into the mirror judging all our flaws some of us are scared  of looking  at the mirror cause we are disgusted…

  • PRAY

    Lyrics from a song keeps ringing in my head it basically describes the struggles of christian life- the song “I’ll keep running to you” (sorry don’t know the name of the artist) is basically one of my favourite songs when I begin to feel like am losing the race of faith, that am undeserving of been in the presence of God because of my filthiness, that I am a sinner undeserving of forgiveness, that I keep praying yet I keep making the same mistakes I try to keep away from cause I knw they will hurt this new race I’ve began with God. But one thing I know is that…

  • Rape but not raped- how did rape become glorified 🙄

    Hey everyone, Now this is one controversial topic for sure, and this post is no way undermining the terrible effects of rape but rather to broaden the horizon ,and to bring light to the fact that a lot of people have been framed and their whole life destroyed by such accusations. We live in a society that somehow tends to to always believe the story of the female irrespective of the situation, and some girls tends to misuse the society’s trust and conjure up lies destined to thwart an innocent man’s life. Rape, as defined by https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape , is ” a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual assault or…

  • How social media affects your reality.

    Thanks to my good friend Tolowoetan for pitching this topic idea. Hope I did it as much justice as you would have wanted. Social media is any application or website that helps to aid communication between people. They are interactive computer-mediated technologies that facilitate the creation and sharing of information, ideas, career interests and other forms of expression via virtual communities and networks (https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_media ) . Few examples of social media includes: Instagram, facebook, twitter, LinkedIn, pin-interest, youtube, tumblr, reddit, Flickr, Google+, WhatsApp and Snapchat just to mention a few. Social media vs reality For so long now, social media has been a place for us all to share snippets…

  • The Indian Sankata (संकट) !

    N. B – SANKATA ( crisis or trouble) India is a country in South Asia, it’s known for been the second most populous country in the world after China. I’m not an Indian but for a while now I’ve being intrigued by the the country’s rich cultural heritage and cuisine, their versatile movie and music industry as well as their different values and beliefs. This intrigue led me into actually researching more on this great country, and I discovered that aside the good things I love about it there are also issues that are to be addressed as well. In this post I’ll be detailing certain issues and probable solutions…

  • Book review- My Plain Jane

    Title – My plain Jane – a spin off of the book Jane Eyre Year released -2018 Authors- Jodi Meadows , Cynthia Hand and Brodi Ashton. Pages- 212 General overview – This was a beautiful blend of humor, paranormal, romance and betrayal based in the pre-victorian era. This book had me hooked on it from the first page to the very last with a heightened curiosity to find out what happened next. And trust me I wasn’t disappointed. Review : Throughout the duration of the book, I was made to feel like a part of the individual journeys undertaken by the different characters in this book. I could literally imagine…

  • Men self-harm too- my story!!

    I was asked to write about what it’s like being a male who self harms. I am a survivor of long-term childhood sexual abuse, I didn’t self harm during the abuse itself as I went to live with my biological father which ended the abuse. My father was a busy man, I met my half brother, my half sister 2 step-brothers and a step-sister and i became very close with my step sister.I learnt she cut herself when really upset, at first I didn’t understand it. Then a year or two later I had a falling out with a friend, and used a nail to cut for the first time.…