• Emotional abuse series part1 – emotional abuse in relationships and marriage

    Hey guys if you have loves my blog so far and would like to contribute at https://ko-fi.com/abbey0245 it would be appreciated ❤. Thanks to Hannah at https://pagesplacesandplates.wordpress.com for taking out time to share her thoughts and experience on this issue, feel free to check out her blog. Now my theme for this month is based on emotional abuse and I have sought the help of other bloggers to contribute to this theme ,so if you would love to contribute a story,blog post or poem on this topic feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll get across to you.  I am personally of the opinion that emotional abuse isn’t…

  • Male circumcision- is this a recipe for future disasters?

    The picture you’re about to see below may be considered explicit .   Hey guys, it’s a new month y’all. The decision to write this topic came from a poll I took on my twitter account to appreciate the country with the largest amount of my viewers- the USA and a follower asked I write on a topic controversial to Americans which is the issue of male circumcision. Thanks Jessica from http://allformyself.net for the idea. Is it all good and rosy or is their another side not been talked about. I will be talking about male circumcision as both a positive critic and a negative critic and would love to…

  • Versatile Blogger award🎉

    I’m excited, well that’s if you can’t already tell. I was nominated for my first ever versatile blogger award so you can guess I am extremely happy, and my appreciation goes to Nikki over at https://lovemetreatme.net for this nomination. Feel free to check out her blog it’s worth the click💛. As a new blogger this certainly means a lot to know that my efforts are appreciated and the messages I try to pass across through them are reaching and hopefully inspiring and encouraging others around the world. To be nominated along with so many wonderful and amazing bloggers is truly one of the best feelings in the world. To be appreciated…

  • Are you subconsciously judgemental

    Hey guys I interrupt this blog post to give a public service announcement😂 I have opened a ko-fi account and would love your contributions and support💛 . Feel free to buy me a coffee @  https://ko-fi.com/abbey0245 Are you judgemental? I am sure most of us would probably swear that we don’t do that shit.  Half of us define ourselves as non- judgemental and tolerable people😇,  we aren’t one to judge others based on any criteria. We simply drink a glass of chilled water and mind our business🍸- with no care in the world for other people’s matters. The words in the picture below would most probably be your answer right??…

  • Mental health series part2 – Body shaming

    Hey guys, well this is a continuation to the mental health series I started last year , this is for anyone and everyone who is tired of constantly been body shamed, constantly been looked down on cause of your body type.  We all have been at that point in our lives where things people say actually affect us, i know we all say “oh i don’t give a damn what  people say” but lowkey we know its hurting us deep inside, its eating us up within, we lowkey look into the mirror judging all our flaws some of us are scared  of looking  at the mirror cause we are disgusted…

  • PRAY

    Lyrics from a song keeps ringing in my head it basically describes the struggles of christian life- the song “I’ll keep running to you” (sorry don’t know the name of the artist) is basically one of my favourite songs when I begin to feel like am losing the race of faith, that am undeserving of been in the presence of God because of my filthiness, that I am a sinner undeserving of forgiveness, that I keep praying yet I keep making the same mistakes I try to keep away from cause I knw they will hurt this new race I’ve began with God. But one thing I know is that…

  • Mental health series alert

    For the next few days leading up to the new year I’ll be doing a series on mental health and would like to ask any other blogger who feels strongly about this issue and would like to be a guest blogger to reach out. Mental health awareness is needed, it isn’t a sign of weakness. Watch out for mental health the series1 #mentalhealth #depression #anxiety <a href=”//www.chitika.com/publishers/apply?refid=abbey101″><img src=”//images.chitika.net/ref_banners/160x600_tired_of_adsense.png” /></a>  

  • Rape but not raped- how did rape become glorified 🙄

    Hey everyone, Now this is one controversial topic for sure, and this post is no way undermining the terrible effects of rape but rather to broaden the horizon ,and to bring light to the fact that a lot of people have been framed and their whole life destroyed by such accusations. We live in a society that somehow tends to to always believe the story of the female irrespective of the situation, and some girls tends to misuse the society’s trust and conjure up lies destined to thwart an innocent man’s life. Rape, as defined by https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rape , is ” a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual assault or…

  • Domestic violence : the male victim perspective.

    Trigger warning- Details of domestic violence and abuse. It was always screaming and fighting. Such venom and ferociousness in every word you spoke to me. Between the sex and the lies and the alcohol, I looked past so many things. Much to my detriment, in retrospect. I’d never say names. I’ve never been one to publicly shame someone. But at the same time, fuck you. Fuck you for all the petty arguments. Fuck you for constantly making me feel like I wasn’t good enough even though I was paying all the bills and working 70 hours a week while you sat at home and got drunk. Fuck you for constantly…

  • Domestic and physical abuse in family and relationships.

    Warning— this article uses graphic personal experiences of domestic violence and may trigger those who have suffered these abuses. I am not a mental health expert and my goal in writing this is not to assume expertise on the issue but to inform on it. Thank you and have a blessed day. He Never Hit Me- Signs of Domestic Violence From Child to Adulthood. What is Domestic Violence? Domestic Violence is a pattern of behaviors used by one partner to maintain power and control over another partner in an intimate relationship, (also called intimate partner violence (IPV), domestic abuse or relationship abuse). https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/abuse-defined Types Of Domestic Violence Domestic violence is…

  • My art therapy for emotional bullying.

    I really don’t know if emotional bullying is a word or if it has an official definition but I chose to not do any research on it but rather take this more personally. For some days now I’ve being in some sort of emotional decay as my emotions has been targeted by people I once described as friends . No one can claim perfection and neither can I, I’ve said things that I’ve come to regret in the heat of the moment. I lack communication skills needed to foster and keep healthy relationships and friendships and u til recently I never even noticed it-but I’m trying to work on it…

  • Society, anxiety and depression.

    I am man, hear me….. I say very little. I have spent the majority of my life living in real fear, a fear of communicating the constant, unrelenting pain that ravaged my soul until I was left with nothing but the darkness of depression.Society forbids me from talking about my pain. I am somehow seen as less of a man if I even whisper for someone’s help and for years, I complied with my captures and in doing so, generalized anxiety disorder infected my brain. I was held in solitary confinement by cultural expectations and whist at the same time being held hostage by the tournament of mental illness. Learn…