• Why you have low self esteem.

    Quote of the day: Confront the dark parts of yourself, and work to banish them with illumination and forgiveness. Your willingness to wrestle with your demons will cause your angels to sing.”August Wilson     Let’s start with some topnotch definitions, according to http://www.goodchoicesgoodlife.org/choices-for-young-people/boosting-self-esteem/ : Self-esteem is simply how you feel about yourself and how you judge your worth. This evaluation has a profound impact on the choices you make since it determines, to a great extent, what you consider yourself capable and worthy of doing. While,according to psychalive.org: “low self esteem is characterized by a lack of confidence and feeling bad about oneself”. Low self esteem is a problem we have all grappled with…

  • Ghosting the new trend?

    Hey hey everyone?, so today we’ll be talking about a trend that seems to be the order of the day in relationships and even friendships?. Some of you might be confused ?,while some are wondering what the hell is ghosting ?. Well here comes google to put us out of our collective misery “the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication”.  As brutal as this may sound both ladies and guys alike have taken this supposedly” easy route” to ending all forms of relationships. I’ll limit our discussion today to mostly relationships, permit me to create a scenario (this scenario can…

  • Thinking out loud – self comparison

    Comparison- the cankerworm?    Self comparison in a lay-man’s term simply means comparing oneself to others. This comparison tends to be either negative or positive but in our world today self comparison tends towards the negative most of the time.     According to a wise man, self comparison is an act of destruction and envy,  am not talking about a self comparison that drives us to .reach for higher positive achievements, am talking of a comparison that tends to make us inferior and less than the people we compare ourselves too.     Let me talk about a part we all are guilty of, have you ever scrolled through your…

  • Why no one can be trusted – not even you

    According to changingminds.org : Trust is both an emotional and logical act. Emotionally, it is where you expose your vulnerabilities to people, but believing they will not take advantage of your openness. Logically, it is where you have assessed the probabilities of gain and loss, calculating expected utility based on hard performance data, and concluded that the person in question will behave in a predictable manner. In practice, trust is a bit of both. I trust you because I have experienced your trustworthiness and because I have faith in human nature. We live in a world where “trust” is just a one-syllable word,a world where the word trust is thrown…

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