March series, emotional abuse, depression , anxiety, mental health, blogger, blogging, suicide, toxic people, relationship, friendship,love, life ,,  Mental health, judgemental, mean, toxic people, anxiety, depression, blogging , blogger, self comparison, negativity, positivity, positive, self love, body shaming, life issues, relationships, love ,l

Am I homophobic?

Now I had no plans on writing a post today at all but considering the online altercation I had with someone which ended with me been called homophobic and all that. I decided to address this issue. I am seriously done with the hypocrisy and controversy surrounding this kind of issue. I don’t care and I’m taking this issue head on so seat back while I take you know a jolly but educative ride.

Over the past few years more awareness has or is still been brought to the issue of homosexuality and the LGBTQ community, I for one until the US legalized gay marriage never knew it existed after all I always knew a man was meant to get married to a woman and vice versa and then they would go ahead to have kids and live happily ever after.

Fast forward to 2019 and we as a society are now well aware of the fact that in most parts of the world a man can get married to a man and a woman can get married to a woman and well they too live happily ever after. Now I’m a firm believer in the fact that you cannot force your choices and opinions on others you can only advice, show love and guide then leave the rest up to them.

So we all have learnt over time to realize the fact that well it won’t always be male and female and other people have a different sexual orientation to what we were all used to. Now all fine and good after all it’s their decision to make and life to account for, but I’ll not stand for people been silenced ,hushed, losing jobs, losing friends, gathering hate all because they stick to their own beliefs that varies from homosexuality.

I see pastors scared of preaching the word of God which states clearly that homosexuality is wrong just because they are afraid of been called homophobic and been insulted and dragged. I see people vanishing to the background when issues like this come up because they have a varying opinion and don’t want to be looked down on as not been opening or accepting of other people. I’m sick of it. You chose your life, you chose your sexuality, you chose your sexual orientation and that’s all on you, that’s your life to live. It’s our job as Christians and human beings to be loving, kind and follow peace with all men but all this can be done without me agreeing with your sexual orientation.

It’s okay for me to be friendly towards you and be loving and kind and tolerant without been made to feel like there is a need to agree with the lifestyle you have chosen. As much as you’ve your life to live so do I. We all clamour for equality and a friendlier environment but yet by our actions we show hate. We subdue the opinion of others till they finally agree and accept your sexual orientation. We play emotional and mind games as well as throw the world homophobic at every and any one who shares an opinion that seems to attack what you stand for. Like why do the LGBT community feel the need to force everyone to accept their lifestyle. If you’re gay then that’s your own sexual orientation and it’s your life I must not feel the need to accept or agree with it as been right. I owe every human being love and kindness because we all deserve to be loved whether LGBT or not and that’s all.

Gays don’t want equal rights, they want special rights, and if you don’t agree with they’re lifestyle for whatever reason, your a homophobe! Give me a break

Why don’t we talk about homosexuals harassing other non homosexuals to give in to their mentality. I am a full believer in the fact that if you’re gay then that’s your life to live but don’t go on trynna push it down our throats. If you want to be gay then go on and be it but don’t try coercing and manipulating others to feel same way. I have till now never seen a more aggressive group of people than the LGBT community, sprouting hatreds and labelling all who don’t go along with you as an enemy will not in any way make them like it none the less. It will only yield more hatred upon hatred.

If even homosexuality is normal, then everything is normal, and nothing is abnormal. Thus no one has any right to criticize anything anyone else does. Not even if it has terrible consequences and undermines society. We have an entire generation now that does not see any consequences for just doing whatever one wants, which is why they are the most selfish and self-centered generation in the history of humanity. But, by loudly shouting their support for LGBT folks, who are as abnormal as you can get, they get to not only ignore their own bad behavior, but feel like they are actually civil rights heroes. In fifty years when our grandchildren are picking up the pieces of the civilization we utterly destroyed, they will curse us for our outrageous stupidity. And we will deserve every single curse.

It isn’t homophobic of me to be opposed to homosexuality, but rather the hate and aggressiveness is what is actually and pitiably phobic and just quite sad. Imagine been called homophobic for been opposed to homosexuality then what do you call people who flat out beat up gay people, arrest them and even refuse to sell, buy or give them a job. Please let’s be guided, I don’t owe you a responsibility to accept your life decisions. I owe you as a human being a responsibility to show love irrespective and be kind and respectful that’s all.

Really guys we can and should do better than this.

Just because we believe something is wrong doesn’t mean we are phobic anymore than someone saying Christianity is wrong makes them christophobic.

Just because the majority believe it’s right doesn’t make it right. I do agree with one thing the Bible does say that homosexuality is immoral and sinful but I also agree with the fact that the Bible didn’t say that homosexuals should be hated or anybody at all should be hated or unloved generally. So next time before you stand on your high horse to call a non homosexual person homophobic remember that it take courage to give another person the benefit of the doubt.

So if speaking and standing on my personal and religious beliefs while yet carrying along the fact that I still have a moral and human right to show love, kindness and respect to all irrespective is what’s described as homophobic – sad

Please follow and like us:

Hey and welcome to my little corner Abbey's chronicles, a blog where I share my raw and unbiased thoughts on issues on mental health, lifestyle, wellness and self care. No topic is ever off limit as long as it affects lives and relationships, it's subject to discussion. This blog strives to provide solace for everyone going through issues they might not be able to talk about on a daily. My name is Abbey, a mental health advocate and enthusiast with a love for helping people who feel alone or are facing issues relating to life and mental health issues with the aim of raising awareness as well as providing succor. This blog was started as an avenue for me to deal with my own monsters. The aim of starting this blog was to for it to serve as some sort of therapy during my darkest times of depression and though it isn't all over yet, I hope this blog serves as a form of therapy to others going through similar issues relating to life and mental health. Finally in my free time I can be seen drowning in movies, food, sleep and books. I guess I am a blogger at night and an aspiring medical student at other times.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *


Enjoy this blog? Please spread the word :)

%d bloggers like this: