• Emotional abuse series part 6 – Emotional Abuse, Body Dysmorphia and the Quest of Self-Love (a guest post).

    Some of us have been taught since an early age that it’s not right for us to be the way we are. We were maybe raised by parental figures who projected, consciously or unconsciously, their own life dissatisfaction on us, making us believe that we were unworthy of their wholehearted validation and attention. They probably also did a poor job at reinforcing our sense of being unique, or even made us feel ambiguous about them, ourselves and the world outside. They might have fed us, so we wouldn’t starve physically, but we surely grew up emotionally unnourished – we were never told how beautiful or clever we were; how worthy…

  • Emotional abuse series part 4 – Dealing with body dysmorphia

    Body dysmorphia is a mental illness when one believes a part or parts of their body is ugly or unpleasant to look at due to a perceived flaw. It usually begins from the age of 11-13yrs of age when one begins to get conscious of their appearance.     Now most people don’t realize that constantly pointing out what they perceive as the other person’s bodily flaw will slowly produce a mindset for the person.  I for one have had people point out my weight to me both friends, family and strangers alike and uptill today I get so conscious around people because I feel they are talking about my weight…

  • Emotional abuse part2 – Beware of energy vampires (a guest post).

    Feel free to show my  blog your support https://ko-fi.com/abbey0245 This is a beautifully written  post by my blogger in crime Jessica over at http://allformyself.net ,if you haven’t checked out her blog yet then please do so. Have you noticed that sometimes around certain people you feel overwhelmed, exhausted or even sick to your stomach? Energy vampires are compelled to surround themselves with others who are typically full of life and vibrant, in an attempt to make themselves feel better. Energy vampires appear to feed off your energy in order to alleviate their own internal suffering. Many energy vampires have a hard time with processing their own emotions, showing empathy and lack sensitivity for…

  • Emotional abuse series part1 – emotional abuse in relationships and marriage

    Hey guys if you have loves my blog so far and would like to contribute at https://ko-fi.com/abbey0245 it would be appreciated ❤. Thanks to Hannah at https://pagesplacesandplates.wordpress.com for taking out time to share her thoughts and experience on this issue, feel free to check out her blog. Now my theme for this month is based on emotional abuse and I have sought the help of other bloggers to contribute to this theme ,so if you would love to contribute a story,blog post or poem on this topic feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll get across to you.  I am personally of the opinion that emotional abuse isn’t…

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